Monday, November 19, 2012

( TREND DOSA ) BUDAYA PACARAN, BUDAYA SYURGA DUNIA TAPI HAKIKATNYA NERAKA

Budaya pacaran ialah pemborosan melalui kencan, traktiran, tontonan, kini jalan zina itu menjadi kebanggaan. Bahkan ada yang minder tidak berpacaran. Malu gak maksiat, Naudzubillah. Ini terulang dimasa Jahiliyah dimana hukum Allah tidak menaungi peradaban, ingat pada zaman jahiliyah dulu para suami malu bila mendapatkan an
ak perempuan, l Malu dikuburkan hidup-hidup. Sekarangpun sama, pada pacaran seakan moral anak terkubur - masa depan rawan terkubur bersamaan dengan dampak buruknya di pergaulan bebas.

Pacaran, bertentangan dengan Islam Agama yang mulia dan aturan Allah yang tinggi pada kehidupan ini.

Pacaran tidaklah lepas dari bersentuhan, entah dengan cara berjabat tangan, berboncengan di atas kendaraan, atau berpegangan, berpelukan, berciuman dan lainnya. Memegang dan menyentuh wanita yang bukan mahram adalah perbuatan yang diharamkan dalam agama kita.

Rasulullah -Shollallahu alaihi wasallam- bersabda :

1) Andaikan kepala seseorang di tusuk dengan jarum besi, itu lebih baik (ringan) baginya dibandingkan menyentuh kulit seorang wanita yang tak halal baginya. [HR. Ar-Ruyaniy dalam Al-Musnad (227/2), dan Ath-Thobroniy dalam Al-Kabir (486, & 487)]

2) Janganlah seorang laki-laki berkholwat (berduaan) dengan seorang wanita kecuali bersama mahromnya [HR Bukhori: 3006,523, Muslim 1341, Lihat Mausu'ah Al Manahi Asy Syari'ah 2/102]

3) Tidaklah seorang lelaki bersepi-sepian (berduaan) dengan seorang perempuan melainkan setan yang ketiganya (HSR.Tirmidzi)

4) Allah SWT Berfirman : Dan janganlah kamu mendekati zina, sesungguhnya zina itu adalah suatu perbuatan yang keji dan suatu jalan yang jelek (Al Quran Surat Al Isra 32)

5) Kedua tangan berzina dan zinanya adalah meraba, kedua kaki berzina dan zinanya adalah melangkah, dan mulut berzina dan zinanya adalah bicara. (H.R. Muslim dan Abu Dawud)

Orang tua tidak peduli lagi dengan anak gadisnya ketika keluar rumahbersama laki-laki yg bukan mahramnya. Keluar dengan b erpakaian serba ketat, kemudian dibonceng,. Tidak tahu kemana anak gadisnya dibawa pergi. Lalu terjadilah apa yang terjadi. Si gadis terkadang pulang larut malam, namun orang tua hanya membiarkan kemungkaran terjadi di dalam rumah tangga, dan keluarganya. Inilah Dayyuts yang diharamkan baginya jannah (surga).

Nabi -Shallallahu alaihi wa sallam- bersabda : Ada tiga golongan yang sungguh Allah haramkan baginya surga: pecandu khomer, orang yang durhaka (kepada orang tuanya), dan dayyuts yang membiarkan kemungkaran dalam lingkungannya. [HR. Ahmad dalam Al-Musnad (2/69/no. 5372). Hadits ini di-shohih-kan Kitab Shohih Al-Jami (3047)]

Rasulullah adalah saksi.........!!

Nabi Shallallaahu alaihi wa Salam bersabda, Setiap umatku yang bersalah akan dimaafkan, kecuali orang yang secara terang-terangan berbuat maksiat ( HR-Bukhari Dan Muslim )

Dari Abu Musa al-Asyari berkata: Rasulullah Saw bersabda: Siapa saja wanita yang memakai wangi-wangian kemudian keluar rumah dan berjalan melewati satu kaum sehingga mereka dapat mencium baunya, maka ia adalah wanita PEZINA. (H

.R. an-NasaI)

Rasulullah Saw bersabda: Perempuan yang berpakaian tetapi TELANJANG, berlenggang-lenggok waktu berjalan. Menghayun-hayunkan bahu. Kepala mereka bagaikan bonggol unta yang senget. Golongan ini TIDAK AKAN masuk syurga dan tidak akan dapat mencium bau wanginya. Sesungguhnya bau wangi syurga itu sudah dapat dicium dari perjalanan yang sangat jauh daripadanya. (HR-Muslim)

Wahai para wanita

Wahai para wanita...tahukah anda bahwa:

Semakin banyak pandangan lelaki yang tergiur denganmu semakin bertumpuk pula dosa-dosamu

Semakin sang lelaki menghayalkanmu...semakin berhasrat denganmu maka semakin bertumpuk pula dosa-dosamu

Janganlah anda menyangka senyumanmu yang kau tebarkan secara sembarangan tidak akan ada pertanggungjawabannya kelak..!. Bisa jadi senyumanmu sekejap menjadi bahan lamunan seorang lelaki yang tidak halal bagimu selama berhari-hari..

Sunday, November 18, 2012

SNL's Deaf Signing Skit "Childish & Insulting"

VIDEO: Marlee Matlin calls Saturday Night Live's Deaf Signing Skit "Childish & Insulting"



NEW YORK CITY -- Deaf actress Marlee Matlin is criticizing Saturday Night Live for the NBC show's recent deaf signing sketch, which spoofed New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg's sign language interpreter Lydia Callis and her animated signing during the Hurricane Sandy press conferences as seen Lydia Callis: Bloomberg's interpreter goes viral.



"I don't mind fun poked at me, as I poke back," the Dancing with the Stars alum tweeted Sunday. "But at the language, that millions use? It feels childish and insulting."





"Sign is not mime; it is a legit language," Matlin also tweeted. "Deaf people HAVE a sense of humor. Ever see me on Family Guy or Seinfeld? But faking signs that we use isn't the same. ... Read more: http://www.tvguide.com/News/Marlee-Matlin-SNL-Deaf-Signing-1055572.aspx



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Lydia Callis' Fans Want Sandy Signer' Back

NEW YORK CITY - Fans want Bloomberg's Sandy signer' Lydia Callis back. When New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg appeared at a news conference Wednesday without Lydia Callis at his side, fans of the sign language interpreter immediately expressed their disappointment via Twitter.



"Wait, where is Lydia Callis???? (aka our favorite sign language interpreter)" @abbygardner tweeted.



"Watching Bloomberg's latest briefing. So sad Lydia Callis is not the sign language interpreter #Sandy" tweeted @kyledoyle.



"Damn they change the #signlanguagelady ... WE WANT LYDIA CALLIS BACK !!!!" @JoeyStugotz6 posted.



Callis, 30, became an Internet sensation just three days earlier because of the dramatic facial expressions and body language she used to translate Bloomberg's dire warnings about the dangers coming with Superstorm Sandy as seen: Lydia Callis: Bloomberg's interpreter goes viral.



Follow LydiaCalas on Twitter: twitter.com/LydiaCalas



Comedy Central's Jon Stewart, during Wednesday night's "Daily Show," said Callis's "expressive sign language interpreting turned disaster press briefings into an Alvin Ailey sign-language recital." ... Read more: http://www.cnn.com/2012/11/01/us/sandy-bloomberg-interpreter/index.html



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Saturday, November 17, 2012

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Chelesa Lately TV Show Under Fire For Mocks Sign Language

VIDEO [ASL/CC] - Host of the Chelesa Lately TV show under fire for mocks American Sign Language.



LOS ANGELES - Late-night host Chelsea Handler (of the Chelsea Lately Show, on E! Network) has found herself in the center of controversy, due to this skit (air date: Oct 30, 2012) the ASL-users community say mocks and makes fun of the language they use to communicate American Sign Language.



In the skit, a member of the cast mocks Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg's ASL Interpreter Lydia Callis, who translated for the Mayor's Hurricane Sandy press conferences, as seen on YouTube video.



Many people unfamiliar with ASL and the plight of the Oralism and Hard of Hearing don't realize that facial expressions and body movements are a part of ASL, and hence it is a protected activity, with communication considered a 'major life activity' under the American With Disabilities Act (ADA).







And what some with hearing (like Chelsea) would consider as "over-exaggerated" facial expressions and body movements are used for a good reason, not to "editorialize" or to be "passionate", but to communicate linguistic elements that those with hearing convey by way of vocal inflection, pitch, rhythm, pace, etc, and take for granted.



America’s largest Deaf organisation, the National Association of the Deaf (NAD) has written an open letter to the producers of a comedy show accusing them of “mocking” American Sign Language. Even, Deaf advocacy organization, Deaf Nation, released a letter the group sent to Handler.



The following article is required reading for everyone (esp. people who think like Chelsea), to understand what they're seeing: http://www.mentalfloss.com/blogs/archives/149593



(Also check out the comments section below the article, as they provide further information which is important to understand the issue.)



E! Entertainment Television corporate lawyers probably will feel compelled to file a DMCA take-down notice with YouTube (as is their right, as they own the copyright), but I WILL file a DMCA counter-notice, demanding they file suit in Federal Court for copyright infringement. If they need to have a Judge lecture them on the basics of the principle of "fair use" exceptions allowed under U.S. Federal Copyright law, then they can be my guest.



On the other hand, I'm willing to consider relinquishing my right to this "fair use" (public commentary) if the "Chelsea Lately Show" offers a public apology for whatever insult and harm they have caused, perhaps with a statement educating their viewers as to why ASL interpreters must use non-gestural components as a part of ASL, to be broadcast on the Chelsey Lately show in an opening monologue, with a message that is deemed acceptable by representatives of the Deaf community (eg Deaf Nation).



Sign the petition here:

http://www.change.org/petitions/chelsea-handler-apology-to-the-public#share



Here's the vloggers, who responses to Chelsea Handler, "Chelsea Lately Show" with Closed Captioned.



"Ching Chong" ASL: Not Acceptable!





Vlog with closed captioned, who not understand in ASL. Discussion of the reasons Lydia Callis (interpreter for Mayor Bloomberg during Hurricane Sandy) has become so "famous" and the language attitudes behind this. A comparison to language attitudes surrounding Chinese is made.



Laugh at or Laugh With?





Discussing my thoughts on issues surrounding TV Show - Chelesa Lately's skit on Hurricane Sandy's Breakout Star: Lydia Callis, NY Mayor Bloomberg's Sign Language Interpreter. Making fun of American Sign Language (ASL) in national spotlight is definitely lame and politically-incorrect despite unexpected and pricesless promotion of our beloved and respectful language recently. An interpreter's main role is to convey information rather than become a celebrity for the ignorant. Deaf people are aware of such mainstream fasincation with interpreters and our "beautiful" language. So I bring up the question that is OK to laugh at or laugh with and basically shrug this off? I think this whole publicity stunt is a turkey. I forgot to mention in my vlog: What if this was a terrorist attack rather than a weather crisis in NYC? OK to laugh at or with Lydia's national exposure? I think not.



Responding to Those Who Mock Sign Language.



Lydia Callis, the interpreter for Mayor Bloomberg during Hurricane Sandy, became famous on internet overnight because of her facial expressions. A number of Deaf people have expressed their objection against those who mock the interpreter and American Sign Language, especially the comedian Chelsea Handler. How should we, as Deaf individuals, response to such mockery of our culture and language?



STOP this Madness! Sign the petition here:

http://www.change.org/petitions/chelsea-handler-apology-to-the-public#share



Follow Chelsea Handler on twitter: twitter.com/ChelseaHandler

Follow LydiaCalas on twitter: twitter.com/LydiaCalas



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